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Citizen Advocacy Covered Dish Supper – video by L.A. Reno

Photos from Annual Covered Dish Supper

Take a look at our photo galleries (scroll all the way down and click on photo galleries icon) and you will see new photos from our 33rd Annual Covered Dish Supper on May 12th at Savannah Station. Thanks to Lori Balfe for taking these photos… more photos from several other photographers will be posted soon.

The Citizen Advocate: Spring 2011 News

Chatham-Savannah Citizen Advocacy is a 32 year old Savannah-based non profit that recruits, matches and offers support to over 125 local citizens who engage in one-to-one citizen advocate matches to offer protection from neglect and harm and advocacy for inclusion and better civic and social opportunities for citizens with developmental disabilities in our community.

 

Citizen Advocacy is built upon freely given voluntary relationships between the two people and advocates are invited to understand, represent and respond to that person’s interests as if they were
the advocate’s own.

 

Listening to Citizen Advocates…

 

I had a quick coffee with citizen advocate Chris Middleton. Chris is an attorney here in Savannah and his days start early. He and a man named Rick Black* have been matched for a year this month so it was a good time to catch up on some of what’s been going on. Rick lives
in a group home here in Savannah.

 

“Rick and I did some hanging out this weekend. He came over to my house and we washed my car together and ate lunch together.” There is nothing more ordinary and manly than men and cars. This is how trust is built.

 

People find ways to spend time together, get to know one another and gradually come to care about
each other and what happens to one other. This is the ground from which spokesmanship and action grow.

 

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I ran into citizen advocate Richard Lane at Barfood in the Habersham Shopping Center. He and his protégé Denise* had been at the mall the previous evening shopping for Denise – new shoes, new outfit.

 

“I really don’t spend much time in the women’s section at Stein Mart, but there we were, with me offering my humble opinion about women’s fashion.” A few minutes later three of Richard’s friends came in to meet him. Two of them have heard about Denise through Richard. I was sort of a “rock star” since I was the “introducer” between Denise and Richard.

 

I introduced Richard to Denise several months ago because Denise needed a Representative Payee. Richard accepted and he now helps Denise manage her monthly finances. He also helps Denise with some errands and shopping. This sort of neighborliness is something that can happen naturally between people. It’s the sort of thing that sometimes needs a little encouraging as well.

 

Denise is a change agent. She changes people’s ideas about who is supposed to know and care about
whom. This is going to be one of the “big stories” in the culture over the next decade or so. Richard and Denise are prophets as they help people around them see neighborliness in action.

 

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Citizen advocate Jane Fishman recently told a lovely story about spending time with her protégé Natalie* and Natalie’s mother. They all spent the day in Natalie’s neighborhood walking around, pushing Natalie’s wheelchair, looking at people’s gardens, talking about who
people in the neighborhood are. Just taking the time to be together and see good things all around.

 

Jane was invited to meet Natalie at a time when various human service agencies were pushing for her to be removed from her family, a time when no one was valuing the complexity of family life. None of the people who were pushing this had spent much, if any time, at Natalie and her mom’s house.

 

A citizen advocate takes the time to be with people, to see what is going on in a person’s life first hand. This is true of Jane, who is beginning to “feel like family.” This match is deepening
and becoming a relationship that can offer enjoyment to everyone and protection to Natalie.

 

*Names have been changed to honor privacy

Join us Thursday, May 12th for Annual Covered Dish Supper

It’s Springtime and it’s time for our Annual Covered Dish Supper and Celebration at the Savannah Station… please join us for this celebration of our community and the personal action and advocacy by people involved in citizen advocacy relationships in our community.

 

Festivities start with a social hour from 5:30 – 6:30 p.m. with appetizers, wine and soft drinks on the patio and music by the band Soap. Bring a big covered dish to share and enjoy the huge covered dish supper from 6:30 – 7:30 p.m. Then it’s time for some Home Grown Good News – stories from from people involved in citizen advocacy from 7:30 – 8:30 p.m. Children will enjoy listening to the music during the social hour and then can visit the activities table hosted by Maggie’s Morning School teachers.

 

The evening opens and closes with some group singing – brush up on the lyrics of “Imagine” and “Lean on Me” and you will be ready to sing along!

 

Please bring a big covered dish to share or $5 at the door. We hope you will join us for this celebration of community and personal action to help make Savannah a great place to live for all citizens.

 

We hope to see you there!

Looking forward to Springtime…

As we welcome Springtime in Savannah, let’s revisit the purpose we share under the banner of Chatham-Savannah Citizen Advocacy.

 

Our shared purpose is to provide protection to and advocacy for people who are marginalized because of prejudice toward disability. We bring people who would not ordinarily meet into meaningful relationship with one another. We have done this for more than 30 years using a model called Citizen Advocacy.

 

We do this so that people who live isolated lives, lives that are only witnessed by paid staff persons, or sometimes by no person, will have someone who is voluntarily and intentionally in their corner.

 

We do this so that people who live big busy lives can be in solidarity with someone whose life looks different on the outside, with the hope that they will discover that they share many of the same hopes, dreams and needs on the inside, inside their souls. We call this “identification”  – when the advocate identifies with the life and the soul of the other person.

 

We do this as a way to encourage both people to be the most they can be as human beings.

 

This is an idea that can have great strength and fragility. It is an idea that becomes real as people find ways to be together, working on practical matters as well as finding ways to share pleasure and enjoyment.

 

As an organization, we have to try and be curious about ourselves. It is easy to fall into unconscious busyness, missing the chance to refresh, reframe and reestablish our passion.

 

As we enjoy the renewal of Springtime, let’s all work together to ask important questions, create useful ideas, celebrate good news and make meaning out of all that comes our way.